Monday, April 28, 2008

The First Annual Women's Week - March 5 - 9, 2008

Members of the Woman's Club:
The First Annual Women’s Week Celebration was a great success. To celebrate the official International Women’s Day, the Club de Madres (Mother's Club) and I carried out a week of events, for women and by women. The recently re-formed Mother’s Club came together out of concern that there were not enough opportunities available to women of the community. The club began the year by bringing three different vocational courses to the community, offered to women free of charge. These courses included sewing, cooking, and massage. At the same time, the Mother’s Club began planning for its first annual Women’s Week.

Wednesday March 5th - Health and Justice
“La Semana de la Mujer” (Women’s Week) began with charlas (educational presentations) given about women’s health and women’s rights. The health charla was given by a local doctor of the community, Dr. Carmen Bonilla (pictured at left), and treated subjects such as basic health, how to do your own breast self-exam, the importance of regular pap smears, and more. Representatives from the official “Oficina de la Mujer” (Women’s Office) of Nagua spoke about women’s rights, particularly in relation to violence against women. There were about 45 people in attendance, and the women who attended the charla were very interested in the information and happy with the outcome.

Thursday March 6th - Recognition Night
Thursday saw our most talked-about night of the week, “La Noche de Reconocimiento” (Recognition Night). During this evening, we awarded twelve women of the community with mounted certificates for the variety of services they have contributed to the community in representation of strong and successful women. Included in the list of award recipients were: a nurse, a doctor, a political representative, teachers, cooks, a nun, and other women who represent a spirit of strength and courage. The Club de Madres insited on giving me an award as well for my work in the community. We also recognized a “Madre Ejemplar” (example mother), to award one woman for her work within the home and family, and to represent the importance of those whose work remains in the household.

Recognition night took the town by surprise. Invitees arrived not knowing what to expect, and witnessed a group of people congratulating women for their everyday work and for being themselves. The school director, a man named Radhames Alvarado, approached the microphone with a look of awe and spoke to the crowd, commenting, “We have never seen anything like this before. This is the first time we have had a night specifically dedicated to the accomplishments of women.” Other key community leaders were present and all had very positive things to say about the event and the importance of this gesture. A few women, inspired by the evening, took the microphone and, fists pumping in the air, called out their own words of inspiration or reflected on their own personal accomplishments. The night was a huge success, and people in town continued to talk about it for weeks to come.
This is Elizabeth, a nun from Mexico who lives and works in the community:
Here I am as I accept my award while struggling not to fall in my borrowed fancy shoes:
Here I am making a joke during my acceptance speech:
Friday March 7th - Adolescent Health
Friday took us to the local high school, where Peace Corps Volunteer and friend Idonah and I carried out charlas for two groups of high school girls. We touched on many important themes such as: understanding the human body, menstruation, pregnancy, birth control methods, and HIV/AIDS. This education is vital to girls of this age in the Dominican Republic, though in many cases youth do not have the opportunity to learn about these issues. Too often young girls end up having unprotected sex, many times ending in teenage pregnancy and as a result, marrying young, dropping out of school, etc.

The girls sat wide-eyed as we taught them about their own bodies and what was happening to them. Things like menstruation, pregnancy, and sex are so taboo in this country that they rarely get a decent explanation of them and are left to fend for themselves when faced with these critical events. We made learning fun for them by playing “Pin the body part on the woman”, and teaching them how to put a condom on a plantain. The “girls only” environment was beneficial as they did not have the pressure nor embarrassment of wondering what the boys were thinking, and felt comfortable asking lots of questions. (Ideology borrowed from Camp GLOW) I selected some of the girls from these groups to continue their education and training in sexual health as members of my new youth group, “Escojo Mi Vida” (I choose my life) and to be multipliers of the information so that they can give their own charlas and continue spreading this important information to youth of the community.

Saturday March 8th - International Women’s Day Celebration
After a week of lectures and informational sessions, we decided that we wanted the official “Día Internacional de la Mujer” (International Women’s Day) to be a time to celebrate and have fun. We called all women to the basketball court for an afternoon of singing, dancing, and prizes. The women were a little slow to arrive, and after seeing the mostly older crowd in attendance, we decided to skip the dance contest and stick with the entertainment portion. Club member Yinelis is well-known throughout Matancitas for her beautiful voice and sang a variety of both cover and original songs, accompanied by Daniel on the keys. Daniel and his friend Eduard also contributed to the afternoon special with songs and serenades dedicated to the women in the crowd.

We had lots of prizes, having had received donations of gifts and money to buy gifts from local community members and businesses. The number of attendees was small enough that each participant walked away with a prize. There were about 60 people at the event that afternoon. Accompanying everything were lots of refreshments and beautiful afternoon weather.

Sunday March 9th - Medical Mission
For the final day of the week, the Mother’s Club helped organize and carry out a Medical Mission. Three female doctors of the community provided their services at discounted prices to community members, with specialties in cardiology, gynecology, and pediatrics. Two of the doctors come directly from our town while the other lives in nearby Nagua. It was helpful for community members to have this mission as they not only saved money off the normal consultation and exam costs, but they were able to stay with their regular doctors. The turnout was not as high as we had hoped it would be, but many women did take advantage of their services, especially pap smears and cardiograms.

Overall the week was a huge success, and something that the Club de Madres hopes to continue for years to come.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Crystal's "Vacation"

So I have to say visiting the Dominican Republic was more of an ‘experience’ than a vacation, as Joan’s dad put it. I had no idea just how simple Joan was living. I knew she didn’t have much but I didn’t foresee having no shower or refrigerator. She never complains about any of these things when we chat on the phone, which is pretty often. I never had the desire to stay in resort land but I guess I wasn’t as tough as I thought. I have to say I missed the luxuries of home. Thinking back on it I think if I did some research on the country I would have been more mentally prepared.

Another reason it was tough was because of the language barrier. I had to depend on Joan for all of my communication. She is pretty fluent now, and doesn’t mind, but it definitely feels strange to depend on someone else to speak. Even though I know a little Spanish I feel intimidated to speak it even though everyone is graciously friendly. It was astonishing just how friendly people were. Joan knows everyone and they all love her. We had three meals at neighbors’ houses, and each time they always served the guest first. They have so little yet they want to make sure you have the most. Back home it is not unusual to be kind to guests, but they truly go out of their way to satisfy you. You can tell how much Joan has adapted and truly become part of the community.

It was difficult too because I am in school all year so I do not get to take many vacations. When I do go on vacation I am ready to splurge, since I rarely do. Joan was not on vacation and was working all week, and makes pretty much enough money to survive, so we weren’t exactly on the same page as far as spending and doing activities. And she never complains about this! I am glad now though because I truly don’t have the money to splurge either. I always knew she was the right type of person for the Peace Corps; she truly always looks out for everyone. That’s why she’s My Girl Joan. One of my favorite things was the food because it was mostly fried and bland (which I love). I also love the music and dancing. I cannot believe how strong the sun was there! I knew it was much closer to the equator but I could not imagine that you really need to shade yourself with an umbrella during the day. I was skeptical at first but when I didn’t use the umbrella I got a headache within twenty minutes. This is not an exaggeration.

Overall the trip was more valuable than I realized during the week. I became more grateful for all that I have. Most people in the U.S. will have more money than the people in the Dominican Republic will think about having or needing. It reminded me of how many freedoms we do have in this country. It is extremely difficult for anyone in the Dominican Republic to get a visa to travel to any other country, even for a week stay visiting a relative. Even if families were granted a visa it would be very difficult to afford the expense, especially since a meal for a family in an inexpensive restaurant would be cumbersome considering the exchange rate. We can pretty much travel to any country we want. I would never even think about the fact that not everyone has this freedom. I am also more mindful of how hard it is for immigrants to adapt to a new culture. It was difficult for me, and I was only staying there for one week. One of the most amazing things about traveling is how much you can learn and how your perspective changes over time. When you travel it changes you and keeps on changing you even after you have gone back home. You might not even realize it until years later. It is pretty amazing.

Joan's Note: We also went to a beautiful beach:
Joan climbing an almond tree:

Crystal drinking her Piña Colada directly from the Piña:

Joan's Dominican "Grandparents" Sonia and Bolivar: